Thursday, January 7, 2010

There Is No Me Without You

For February we'll be reading There is No Me Without You: One Woman's Odyssey to Rescue Africa's Children by Melissa Fay Greene.

There Is No Me Without You is the story of Haregewoin Tefarra, a middle-aged Ethiopian woman of modest means whose home has become a refuge for hundreds of children orphaned by AIDS. It is a story as much about the power of the bond between children and parents as about the epidemic that every year leaves millions of children, mostly healthy themselves, without family. Originally a middle-class woman with a happy family life, Haregewoin fell into a deep depression after the death of her recently married daughter. But then a priest brought her two children, AIDS orphans, with nowhere to go. Unexpectedly, the children thrived, and Haregewoin found herself drawn back into daily life. As word got out, an endless stream of children began to arrive at her door, delivered by dying parents and other relatives who begged for her help, and, pushing against the limits of her home and bank account, she took more and more in. Today, Haregewoin runs a school, a daycare system, and a shelter for sick mothers. Without medication for her charges—some HIV-positive, some uninfected, and some infants trying to fight off the virus, but almost all of whom come to her terrified and malnourished—she forges on, caring for as many as she can handle. Increasingly, she also places them for adoption with families like that of journalist Melissa Fay Greene, who has two children adopted from Ethiopia. In Haregewoin Tefarra’s story, Greene gives us an astonishing portrait of a woman fighting a continent-wide epidemic.
(summary provided by GoodReads)

We'll be meeting at Jenn's house February 2nd, 8:00pm.

The Great Divorce Discussion

A big thanks to all who came to our discussion of the great divorce. And to Maren who hosted and fed us.

I just wanted to post a few quotes that were brought up in the discussion.


"Hell is a state of mind... But Heaven is not a state of mind. Heaven is reality itself. All that is fully real is Heavenly. For all that can be shaken will be shaken and only the unshakeable remains."

"Ye cannot fully understand the relations of Choice and Time till you are beyond both."

"There are only 2 kinds of people in the end: Those who say to God 'Thy will be done.' and those to whom God says in the end 'Thy will be done.'. All that are in Hell choose it."

"For to be afraid of oneself is the last horror."

"Brass is mistaken for gold more easily than clay is."